If you can get a girl to do you a favor, you automatically create a connection between you and her. As soon as she agrees to help you out, she’s obligated to spending time doing something connected to YOU.
You need to choose the favor carefully though.
Too big and there’s a chance she’ll say no.
Too small and she’ll be able to complete it quickly and therefore forget about you quickly too.
Here’s a good one you can use.
Walk up to a girl or a couple of girls who are talking to each other and say, “Hi. Could you do me a favour?” Don’t give them time to respond to this, just continue by saying, “I’ve got a problem with this phone (hold a cell phone in your hand).
I need to test it. Could one of you hold it for a minute, I’ll go over there and call you.” Chances are at this point they’ll be interested but still a little unsure of you and what you’re suggesting. So smile and with a real air of confidence, say, “It’s okay. It’ll be fun! What’s your name?”
Once they’ve agreed to help you out, move away from them so you’re out of sight, around the corner or something. If you’re at all worried about the safety of your phone in their hands, get a wingman (a buddy of yours) to keep an eye on them from a distance.
He can also watch to see what they say once you’re out of sight and then report back to you a little later. When you’re out of sight, don’t call them for at least 3 full minutes. This will seem like an eternity to them.
They won’t know why you haven’t called. Is the phone broken? Have you tried calling yet? All they’ll be thinking about will be YOU and the situation they’re in with you. After 3 or 5 minutes, call the phone they’re holding for you using a wingman’s cell. It’s up to you what you say, but be playful. After chatting to them for a minute or two, go back to see them and quiz them on how it sounded and if the call went through okay.
The advantages of this opener are plenty.
It’s fun, different and unusual.
The girl or girls interact with you three times in this opener.
First when you approach them and ask the favour, second when you call and speak to them (a nice touch is asking the one who answers to put her friend on the line after 30 seconds and then playing with both of them, being flirty etc.), and third when you go back to them at the end. That’s three times the impact of any other conventional opener.
By the time you return, they’re totally wrapped up in your reality. You’re connected with them like you’ve known them forever. Inviting them to join you and your friends is easy for them to happily agree to. Simple…
When you get her number make sure you follow you read 7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes (and how to avoid them)
If you have any examples of favours you have tested in the field, comment below, I would love to hear them!